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People in Other Cultures Part 2
People from a range of cultural backgrounds responded to the ΖEXQND 6XUYH\ on this topic. Here DUH D IHZ RI WKHLU UHVSRQVHV IRU \RX WR UHDG DQG WKLQN DERXW SURVEY Q1 An expert on American and French cultures* has observed that Americans tend to directly ask favors of their friends. In contrast, French people tend to indirectly hint DW D SUREOHP WKH\ DUH KDYLQJ DQG ZDLW IRU WKHLU IULHQGV WR RHU KHOS 'RHV WKDW PDWFK your personal experience? How do people do this in the culture you grew up in? 1 As a French person, I agree with the remark concerning the French. When I need help, I tend to just talk to my friends about my problems without asking for help directly, in order to avoid putting pressure on them. Marie )UHQFK DUWLVW OLYHV LQ -DSDQ 10-00 2 I suppose that Americans are rather direct. Especially with people we are close to, we just say, "Hey, could you do me a favor?" or use some other casual expression. And it can be okay to say no to a request without suffering any lasting damage to the relationship. Joey $PHULFDQ WHDFKHU OLYHV LQ -DSDQ 10-00 3 Australians generally ask favors of others directly but politely. I have the feeling that hinting at a problem might be seen as slippery or even somehow dishonest , since it’s a culture which prides itself on straight, honest communication. Lesley $XVWUDOLDQ ELRORJLVW KDV OLYHG LQ -DSDQ 10-00 4 In Japan, my experience is that usually it is enough to describe your problem, and the other person will understand that you are asking for help. In that sense it is the complete opposite of Hungary. In Hungary, if you were to ask a favor simply by describing your situation, you would probably receive a response like "So?" or "I see." Patricia +XQJDULDQ VWXGHQW OLYHV LQ -DSDQ 10-00 COMPREHENSION 1 Read the responses and mark the statements true or false. True False 1 0DULH EHOLHYHV WKDW DVNLQJ KHU IULHQGV GLUHFWO\ IRU KHOS ZRXOG KDYH D QHJDWLYH DHFW RQ WKHLU UHODWLRQVKLS 2 -RH\ ZRXOG SUREDEO\ RQO\ HYHU DVN D IDYRU RI KLV IULHQGV XVLQJ YHU\ IRUPDO ODQJXDJH 3 $FFRUGLQJ WR /HVOH\ LQ $XVWUDOLDQ FXOWXUH LWȇV SUREDEO\ EHWWHU WR H[SODLQ KRQHVWO\ ZKDW \RX ZDQW ZKHQ DVNLQJ IRU IDYRUV 4 3DWULFLD VD\V WKDW WKH ZD\ LQ ZKLFK SHRSOH DVN IRU IDYRUV LQ +XQJDU\ LV H[DFWO\ WKH VDPH DV LQ -DSDQ VOCABULARY FORVH WR ODVWLQJ VOLSSHU\ GLVKRQHVW SULGH RQHVHOI RQ RSSRVLWH Ʉ8QLW Ʉ I Ʉ$VNLQJ D IDYRXU 63
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