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WARM-UP SURVEY

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Until what age did you sleep in the same bed as your parents?

In your opinion, when a couple has a baby, do you think it’s normal that their life becomes centered on that child?

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What do you think is the most appropriate bedtime for a 6-year-old child?

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For you, when was the most enjoyable stage of childhood?

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1. First, write your answers to Q1~5 in full sentences, giving reasons and opinions where you can.

INTERVIEW

Q1: Until what age did you sleep in the same bed as your parents?

Q2: What do you think is the most appropriate bedtime for a 6-year-old child?

Q3: For you, when was the most enjoyable stage of childhood?

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Q5: In your opinion, when a couple has a baby, do you think it’s normal that their life becomes centered on that child?

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Q1 Until what age did you sleep in the same bed as your parents? (if you did)

1 I probably never slept in the same bed as my parents. I was put in a crib from a very young age. Then my parents probably put the crib and me in another room very soon after that, when I was just a few months old. In my country, privacy for parents is very important. The parents’ bed should remain a place for the couple, not for the family.

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2 In the UK, many people think that if little children sleep in the same bed as their parents they will never “cut the cord”, that is, become fully independent from their parents. So it’s largely frowned upon.

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Since I started living in Japan, my thoughts on children having their own rooms has changed. I used to think they should sleep in a separate room from birth, but later I came to think that this should happen when they start school. Now, I think it should be only when they feel ready. Sleeping with my kids was so cozy and intimate.

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COMPREHENSION 1

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Q2 In the culture you grew up in, would you say that the general attitude toward children is strict? How about in other cultures you have lived in?

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It seems to me that in Japan there is a real laissez- faire attitude of parents towards their children! I often see children whining in public, and their parents say nothing. French children usually behave themselves in public. If they are or boisterous they will be quickly reprimanded.

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I lived in France for a few years. I would say that children there seemed to be better behaved than children in Australia. I think in France the expectations were higher, and there were fewer made for children who weren't behaving in a socially acceptable way. for the child to always be seen as 'right' in the eyes of their parents, and this is played out in parents' with teachers and in schools across the country. I would say that children in my culture are supported almost to the point of being indulged. 6 Here in Australia, I think there's a

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I get the impression that mothers in Japan are expected to devote all of their time and energy to their children. It seems that they almost stop being individuals while they are raising their children, and only get their life back when the kids leave the nest. This is something that I have not only observed myself, but have also been told about by Japanese women.

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I have always been struck by how much some Japanese parents pamper their children. I see my wife’s relatives sleeping in the same bed as their kids, preparing their meals, even letting them choose the family dinner menu. I sometimes worry that these children will never learn any responsibility.

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But once they leave the house, these same kids are amazingly mature. Many small children walk by themselves to school, and carry out many duties in their classrooms, such as serving lunches and cleaning the school. This gap between indulgence and discipline is pretty startling for many Westerners I’ve spoken to.

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