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WARM-UP SURVEY

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What kinds of actions do you think are “romantic” ? Æ choose three

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Which of these do you think is a stronger sign of love between partners?

Would you like to get married or live with a partner in the future? Why or why not?

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Imagine you are on a lunch date with someone. Who pays the bill?

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INTERVIEW

Q1: What kinds of actions do you think are “romantic” ?

Q2: Do you think it’s more important to talk openly and honestly about most things or to be able to notice or guess your partner’s needs without words?

Q3: Who pays the bill when you are on a lunch date with someone?

Q4: What things do you think are important to do together with your partner?

Q5: Would you like to get married (or live together with someone) in the future?

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People in Other Cultures Part 2

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Q1 In your opinion, is it OK for couples to have SXEOLF GLVSOD\V RI D΍HFWLRQ"

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When I was a student in the US, I found it very strange that people called me romantic all the time just because of my French nationality.

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And in fact I was shocked whenever I went out with couples. Often they were all over each other, holding each other, kissing, and calling each other sweet names. In France, that behavior is considered quite rude by people you are with (your friends or your family), like you are excluding them or ignoring them.

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COMPREHENSION 1

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Q2 Do you think it’s important that couples discuss everything, or should people be able to understand their partner’s needs without words?

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For me, it’s after having a good discussion that you can really empathize with someone. If you just try to guess their feelings, the chances are high that you’ll be mistaken a lot of the time.

My wife and I are both supposed to be adults. So I feel that I shouldn’t have to explain everything to her. But when we need to make a decision she insists on discussing everything in detail. I sometimes feel that she is like a robot that can’t deal with real human emotions. It’s sometimes frustrating, but we’re both making an effort to bridge the gap.

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