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An intermediate-level EFL textbook

4 Having Guests in Your Home

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WARM-UP SURVEY

Answer the following questions about your daily life.

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Which rooms in your house do you let guests (aside from relatives) into?

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Do you prefer to spend time with people in private homes, or in public places such as cafes? Why?

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1. First, write your answers to Questions 1~5 in full sentences, giving reasons and opinions where you can.

INTERVIEW

Q1: Who do you currently live with? ...............................................................................................................................................................................................................

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Q2: How often do people come to your home? ...............................................................................................................................................................................................................

Q3: What do people visit your house for? ...............................................................................................................................................................................................................

Q4: Which rooms in your house do you let guests into? Do you give them a tour of your house? ...............................................................................................................................................................................................................

Q5: Do you prefer to spend time with people in private homes, or in public places such as cafes? Why? ...............................................................................................................................................................................................................

2. Ask the survey questions to three classmates and make notes of their answers.

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People in Other Cultures Part 2

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SURVEY

Q1 In the culture you grew up in, is it common to invite people into one's home to socialize? How about in other cultures you have experienced?

Yes. It is very common. In fact, when I was growing up, it wasn’t uncommon for my friends to be over at my parents’ house, even when I \FXSƍY YMJWJ . XTRJYNRJX WJYZWSJI MTRJ KWTR R^ UFWY YNRJ OTG YT ƳSI friends in my basement playing video games with my brothers.

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4-01

I am American and I have a fairly open attitude towards socializing at home. I enjoy inviting people over casually, for a drink or coffee, for example. But for my Japanese wife, there is no such thing as a "casual" visit from a guest. For her, the house is reserved almost exclusively for visits from family.

Bob $PHULFDQ SURIHVVRU OLYHV LQ -DSDQ

4-02

I don’t mind meeting people at restaurants, but all my friends have come to my place and had dinner together many times. I can open up and show my true self that way. If someone had never visited my home, I would feel strange about calling that person a friend.

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4-03

COMPREHENSION 1

Read the responses and mark the statements true or false .

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COMPREHENSION 2

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Q2 Do you usually give a tour of your home to guests?

Sure, I do. I want them to be able to really . Once I’ve shown them around most of the rooms and where everything is, my guests are free to themselves to any food or drink, and then they don’t me to guide them. In this way, they can truly at home.

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4-04

No. When I was a teenager I used to friends to my bedroom so we could chat in private. But now that I’m an adult and I my own place, nobody comes to my bedroom. I would never of showing that space to people now, even my close friends. We just in the living room or the kitchen.

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Which one of the survey responses on pages 29 and 30 was most interesting to you? Explain your choice, using the vocabulary in the box below. Then discuss your choice with classmates.

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CULTURE SHOCK

Read the responses and mark the statements true or false .

Q3 Have you ever experienced a communication gap or misunderstanding in a foreign culture, with regard to having guests in the home?

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4-06

Four years ago I did a homestay in Perth, Australia. My host mother was a charming lady. She showed me all over the house, and told me to help myself to any food to make my own breakfasts and lunches. At ƳWXY . \FX YTT XM^ YT J[JS TUJS YMJ KWNILJ G^ R^XJQK FSI GFWJQ^ FYJ FS^YMNSL YMJ ƳWXY \JJP . HFS QFZLM FGTZY NY ST\ GJHFZXJ ST\ . XJJ that hosts and guests sometimes have very different expectations.

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4 Having Guests in Your Home

One Step Further ACTIVITIES

Here are some more responses from the Ibunka Survey on the topic of the home as a social space. Let’s examine them for underlying cultural trends. We can see that the language in many responses hints at two basic patterns.

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SURVEY

LOOKING FOR PATTERNS

CULTURAL PATTERN A: Socializing outside of the home

CULTURAL PATTERN B: Socializing in the home In other cultures, houses welcome guests on a regular basis because having people over for meals, drinks, etc. is considered an important part of friendship. In those cultures, it is important to keep one’s house tidy and accessible enough that you can welcome visitors at any time.

In some cultures, the inside of the house is seen as a private place that people outside one’s immediate circle are not expected to enter. People feel more comfortable getting together in public places like cafes and restaurants.

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I like having people over to my home to socialize. I love to cook and to host. Unless I was paying for my guests, I would feel cheap inviting people to a restaurant. If I wanted to see my friends, I would invite them to my home. $XVWUDOLDQ *HUPDQ IHPDOH VSHHFK WKHUDSLVW OLYHV LQ $XVWUDOLD 6 Yes, here in Japan things are quite different from France; we don't often invite people to our house, even family. For example, when my Japanese wife’s parents visit, we will pay for a hotel for them, even though they come from far away. They don’t stay long at our place, either. In order to adapt to the local culture and especially to the wishes of my Japanese wife, I have gotten used to not welcoming people to our home very often. I miss it. )UHQFK PDOH SURIHVVRU OLYHV LQ -DSDQ 7 In my experience, Japanese homes are a cluttered mess, especially if kids are involved. Ours is a disaster, and I do not enjoy having people over. After a while, this "who cares" attitude sinks in, and it's just too YNRJ HTSXZRNSL to bother with tidying up. &DQDGLDQ IHPDOH KRPHPDNHU OLYHV LQ -DSDQ 8 I once visited a Japanese colleague without UWJ FWWFSLJRJSY . This happened by chance; I went hiking, got lost, and stumbled across her residence. She made me wait outside while she tidied YMJ MTZXJ KTW FGTZY ƳKYJJS RNSZYJX GJKTWJ \JQHTRNSL RJ NSXNIJ 9MNX \FX ^JFWX ago. I have not visited a Japanese colleague unexpectedly since then. %ULWLVK PDOH FKHI OLYHV LQ -DSDQ 9 Tidying up the house does not seem as important as in France, since the space remains private and will not be seen by outsiders. French people often feel that Japanese homes are cluttered, not managed enough, and that they are not designed to be beautiful on a daily basis. In France, people look for beauty and functionality, but in Japan, I feel people are preoccupied with functionality and don’t worry about beauty. )UHQFK IHPDOH WHDFKHU OLYHV LQ -DSDQ 10 Most Japanese houses I visited were often full to T[JWƴT\NSL \NYM stuff, just piled up. I guess this can largely be put down to the size of houses, or lack of storage options. $XVWUDOLDQ IHPDOH FDUHHU FRXQVHORU KDV OLYHG LQ )UDQFH DQG 0RURFFR 11

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EXPRESSION

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INTERCULTURAL COMMUNICATION as experienced by REAL PEOPLE Many people who live or have lived abroad shared their thoughts in the Ibunka Survey , on a variety of everyday topics. This textbook is based on their responses.

Who is this textbook appropriate for? Students in intermediate-level EFL classes at Japanese universities:

SURVEY

b general English b communication b content-based

Q1 Until what age did you sleep in the same bed as your parents (if you did)?

What is original about it? It introduces some basic topics of intercultural communication by focusing on everyday situations such as school, clubs, and family relationships. Why is that important? Because focusing on everyday situations, rather than abstract concepts, makes it easier for students: (1) to explore the topics (even if they have limited life experience), so that they actually can expand their worldview; (2) to express their habits and opinions meaningfully, so classes are lively and fun.

I probably never slept in the same bed as my parents. I was put in a crib from a very young age. Then my parents probably put the crib and me in another room very soon after that, when I was just a few months old. In my country, privacy for parents is very important. The parents’ bed should remain a place for the couple, not for the family.

Bill American, surveyor, has lived in Mexico

9-01

Such opinions and experiences, coming from a range of individuals, provide general hints about cultural patterns, not debatable “truths” about cultures.

TWO-STEP PROGRESSION • In Part 1 of each unit, You and Your Culture VWXGHQWV UHȵHFW RQ WKHLU own habits and preferences, compare them with their classmates’, and express basic ideas about culture. • Part 2, People in Other Cultures , introduces students to other cultural patterns, and guides them to react to some examples of cultural GL΍HUHQFHV DQG VLPLODULWLHV

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